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The Time Will Pass Anyway
Don’t give up on your dreams just because of the time they take.
A few years ago I started learning Japanese. With the time I was willing to invest in it, I could learn 10 words a day. At that pace, it would’ve taken me years to reach fluency. After realising just how long it would take, I quit. After all, it would take years to become fluent! The years passed anyway, except now I don’t know Japanese.
This has been a recurring motif throughout my life. I quit doing something because the progress is too slow, and a few months or years down the line I think “I would’ve made so much progress if I had just kept going.”
Don’t Give Up
“Patience is waiting. Not passively waiting. That is laziness. But to keep going when the going is hard and slow — that is patience. The two most powerful warriors are patience and time.”
— Leo Tolstoy
When you don’t get immediate results, it may be tempting to just give up. Especially in this modern age in which 100 different apps and sites are constantly fighting for your attention, choosing the path of delayed gratification is unimaginably difficult. Why work hard now for a possible reward in the future when you can open social media and get a dopamine surge now?
